Showing posts with label sex advice. Show all posts
Showing posts with label sex advice. Show all posts

Sexually Conservative Men More Likely To Be Swayed By Erotic Images, Study Suggests

Sexually conservative men are more swayed by sexual images than more adventurous dudes, according to a new study that might help explain why the sexually conservative, paradoxically, tend to take sexual risks.






The study suggests that men who have no intention of having casual sex nevertheless become more willing to do so after exposure to images of pretty women in bikinis. This willingness without intention may explain a lack of foresight that leads to sex without protection, the study researchers write today (June 19) in the British Journal of Health Psychology.
"Think of this as similar to young teenagers drinking," study researcher Megan Roberts, a psychologist at Brown University, said in a statement. "Most don't go out explicitly intending to get drunk, but are willing if they are offered alcohol at a party. Likewise, many adults do not intend to have casual sex, but would be willing to do so if presented with the opportunity." [50 Sultry Facts About Sex]
Studies dating back to the 1980s have found that people with conservative attitudes toward sex have less intercourse than the sexually liberal, as might be expected. But when the sexually conservative do get busy, they're more likely to take risks, such as not using protection against pregnancy or sexually transmitted infections.
A sexual mystery
This puzzle confused health researchers. To get the bottom of why people behave so strangely, Roberts and her colleagues first asked 75 college-age men if they intended to have casual sex with a stranger or acquaintance in the next six months. Twenty-eight of them (37 percent) said no.
The researchers then had the men do a word-identification task, into which the researchers had inserted subliminal images of either pretty bikini-clad women or neutral photographs, such as those showing lightening bolts. The images flashed onscreen for only 8 milliseconds, too few to register consciously.
After the subliminal image presentation, the men completed another questionnaire, this one including a vignette about going home with a woman from a party. The guys were asked how likely they were to engage in a variety of sexual acts with this near-stranger.

Celebrity Sex Advice: Quotes From Young Female Celebrities

This week, Nerve published a list of the best sex advice from celebrities over 40. Though we're not denying that these stars know what they're talking about -- we would literally take any advice Meryl Streep gave us -- we also don't want to discount the sexual wisdom of younger generations.
Here are seven pieces of our favorite sex advice from famous women age 40 and under.





1. Don't be afraid of dirty talk.
I know a lot of people have a hard time talking dirty -- they don't know what to say, how to start, or when to end it. Also, at first they will think they sound ridiculous. And they might. But let me just say that talking dirty is so important in sex. And it's pretty easy. To wit: Establish from the very beginning that you like this. And trust me, you want to do it early on. Because if you wait too long to introduce the concept, your Special Lady Friend will be a little thrown and might not take you seriously.
-- Olivia Munn, 32
2. Don't ever fake it in the bedroom. (And we don't just mean orgasms.)

You have to really enjoy [being sexy]. Not fake anything. Sexy is being in the moment, whether that means being coy or coming on hard. Faking is always lame and it never comes across the way you want it to.
-- Cameron Diaz, 40
3. Experiment, experiment, experiment.

Some people are more experimental in bed and others are more boring. If you are wild and crazy, bring it on so the other person is well aware that you have little devil horns that come out every once in a while. It's good to make an effort to dress up sometimes, to do things outside of the norm.
-- Heidi Klum, 40
4. There are no rules when it comes to who we're attracted to.

People questioning the idea that a woman could sleep with a man who defied her lot in the looks bracket hews so closely to these really outdated ideas about what makes a woman worth spending time with. Really? Can you not imagine a world in which a girl who's sexually down for anything and oddly gregarious pulls a guy out of his shell for two days?
-- Lena Dunham, 27
5. Don't lie to yourself about your own desires (or lack thereof).

You can lie to your relatives at Christmas dinner and tell them everything on the home front is just peachy. But you cannot lie to your vagina.
-- Olivia Wilde, 29
6. Sex with your ex isn't always a bad idea.

I think it's a good idea when you know that you're not going to see them again or call them again. If it's ex-sex with the hopes of it not being over, you're screwed. Ex-sex is also a good idea when there's unfinished business, like maybe when it's subtly hate sex, or let-me-show-you-how-much-I've-learned-in-the-past-couple-years sex.
-- Rashida Jones, 37
7. Rebound sex can actually be helpful.

I think [rebound sex] is a great idea. I think it's like the only way, if you can manage it... I've been on both sides and sometimes it's like great, that's the way out, and other times it's like a dry spell for months and months.
-- Ari Graynor, 30